Relationship abuse in Bedfordshire

Tackling abuse

We've launched a campaign to tackle relationship abuse in Bedfordshire, reassuring students and residents of Bedfordshire that it's safe to speak out about it.

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or call us 100% anonymously on 0800 555 111

What is relationship abuse?

Relationship abuse is a crime. It can be physical, sexual, psychological, mental, emotional or financial abuse and it will affect one in four women, as well as one in six men, in their lifetime.

Domestic abuse is about power, dominance and control over vulnerable victims who are either too scared or emotionally trapped to speak out.

Speak Up. Stop relationship abuse. 100% Anonymously.

Although our anonymous service means we can't take information from victims, in many causes, neighbours, friends and even family may suspect abuse is taking place but they’re reluctant to get involved. Victims are often too afraid to speak up - we encourage those close to the victim or person responsible for the abuse to give us information anonymously, whilst still being able to openly support loved ones.

Together, we can break the cycle of domestic abuse.

Relationship abuse: spot the signs

Most relationships have ups and downs but there is a difference between occasional arguments or grumpiness, and abuse.

There are some warning signs you can look for to help you identify possible abuse in relationships:

Someone being abused may:

see less and less of friends and family
have given up activities or hobbies they enjoy doing
feel scared about how their partner will react
take the blame for things
feel nervous about their partner hearing your conversation with others
not want to express their opinions
feel like they have to justify themselves because their partner is jealous
be constantly criticized by their partner and start to feel bad about themselves
be made to feel uncomfortable when they disagree with their partner
feel manipulated when a partner is kind or gives gifts
change their behaviour, appearance and actions to suit a partner
be constantly contacted on a mobile phone by their partner

Domestic abuse typically follows a pattern whereby the tension builds before the abuse takes place. This usually increases in frequency and becomes more severe over time. It is never too late to make a change and break away from an abusive relationship.

If you don’t want to go to the police, you can contact Crimestoppers anonymously through our 0800 555 111 number or the Anonymous Online Form.